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“A person’s wisdom yields patience; it is to one’s glory to overlook an offence.” Proverbs‬ ‭19:11‬
 
Offences have contributed to many casualties in relationships, yet the verse here says it is to one’s glory to overlook an offence. You never be a part of a close social group without eventually having a really good reason to be offended. Focusing attention on the offences allows the spirit of offence to settle down within. When this happens offences form, take control of your reactions to others. Offences can be responsible for a bitter spirit that feeds un-forgiveness leaving the offended in an emotional prison. 
 
“Great peace has those who love your law, and nothing shall offend them. Psalms‬ ‭119:165‬. Loving and living the word brings peace and expels offences. Talking it over always helps,  without confronting issues offence can easily multiply. The human mind tends to forget good and focus on the bad. Focusing on good things results in cultivating a positive outlook and minimizes offences